Private Coaching with Amber

 

 

Maybe it's not full-blown addiction. But...

You Don't Like Where It's Going—

Let's Change Direction

 

 

Private coaching to help you address it now—on your terms, privately, before this pattern costs you what matters most.

 

 

 

 

 

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Most of the Time, Things Are Fine

 

You go days—sometimes weeks—where everything feels completely manageable. You tell yourself, "See? I don't have a problem. I've got this."

But then the dam breaks.

A stressful week. A fight with your partner. Sometimes just a random Tuesday. And suddenly you're drinking more than you planned, saying things you regret, making choices that don't line up with who you want to be.

And the next day? You feel terrible. Not just physically. Ashamed. Disappointed. Wondering how you let it happen again.

Here's what makes this so hard to address:

It's not always a problem—which means you can always point to the times it's NOT as proof that it's fine. And you have. We both know you have.

You've minimized it. Gotten defensive when someone brought it up. Told yourself they were overreacting.

 

But there's a part of you—the part that's reading this right now—that knows the truth.

 

You're exhausted from the mental gymnastics. Tired of managing and hiding. Tired of not knowing which version of yourself is going to show up. Tired of the gap between who you are on your good days and who you become when the dam breaks.

You're not living in alignment with your own values. And that's eating at you.

You don't need someone to tell you this is a problem. You already know.

What you need is a way out—on your terms, before this costs you what matters most.

The Part You Don't Talk About

 

Nobody sees the mental exhaustion of managing this.

The constant calculations. How much is too much? Did anyone notice? What's my excuse if they ask? You've gotten so good at managing the optics that it's become a full-time job on top of your actual life.

And the shame after the dam breaks? You don't talk about that either.

You wake up replaying what happened. Running through the list of things you said, things you did, promises you made to yourself that you broke—again. You tell yourself this time is different. And you mean it. Every single time, you mean it.

But there's something even harder than the shame.

It's the gap.

The gap between who you are on your best days—the parent, the partner, the person you're capable of being—and who shows up when the dam breaks.

 

You know who you want to be. You just can't seem to stay that person consistently.

 

And the people closest to you? They feel that gap too. They're not sure which version of you is going to show up. That uncertainty? It creates distance. And you can feel it growing.

 

You're not living in alignment with your own values. And that's the part that eats at you the most.

 

 "I feel so comfortable telling Amber things I’d normally keep bottled up. It’s like her confidence in me becomes my own when I speak honestly. She knows exactly how to ask the right question at the right time. For as long as I can remember, no one ever asked me those kinds of questions—they were too afraid of the truth. But with Amber, I have nothing to hide."

When Your Actions Match Your Values...

the exhaustion lifts.

 
 

Right Now, You're 

  • Exhausted from managing and hiding
  • Ashamed after the dam breaks
  • Defensive when it comes up
  • Disconnected from the people you love
  • Controlled by unpredictable patterns
  • Never knowing which version of yourself will show up
  • Living two different lives

What's Possible:

  • Living openly and honestly
  • Proud of your choices the next day
  • Nothing left to defend
  • Fully present and reconnected
  • Back in control of your own life
  • Consistently showing up as the person you want to be
  • Finally just one person

 

This is what's possible when you stop trying to manage the problem and start actually solving it.

Most people wait.

They wait until someone gives them an ultimatum. Until something breaks that's hard to fix. Until they have no choice.

By then, their options are limited. Their privacy is gone. The damage to their relationships is already done.

You're not doing that.

You're here because you can see where this is headed—and you're choosing to get ahead of it while you still have the advantage. You still have time. You still have privacy. You still get to solve this quietly, on your terms, without blowing up everything you've worked so hard to build.

 

Addressing this now—before it becomes a crisis—is one of the smartest decisions you'll ever make.

 

"You're addressing this early—which means you get to solve it on your terms, privately, without blowing up your life."

Right Now You Have Something Most People Don't

  • Time - to address this without crisis forcing your hand
  • Privacy - no groups, no labels, no public recovery story
  • Control - to solve this on your terms, your way
  • Options - before the window closes

That's a powerful position to be in.

The best time to address this was before it became a problem. The second best time is right now.

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Why This Works When Other Things Haven't

 

Most approaches to addressing addictive patterns are built around one assumption: that you need to be broken down before you can be built back up.

I don't believe that.

After 20 years of working with individuals and families, here's what I know: lasting change doesn't come from shame, force, or following someone else's program. It comes from understanding how YOU specifically are wired—and building a strategy around that.

That's what we do here.

"Amber creates a space for raw, honest conversations that I didn't even know I needed. For the first time, I felt free to share thoughts I'd kept buried for years. Her genuine approach made all the difference.

I'm beyond grateful for the clarity and freedom I've gained through our work together."

Built Around Your Personality

Most programs hand you a plan that was designed for someone else. This one starts with YOU—your specific personality, your strengths, your blind spots, and what actually motivates you. Using proven assessments and one-on-one coaching, we build a strategy that works with your nature, not against it.

Grounded in the Psychology of Motivation

This isn't about willpower. It's about understanding what's actually driving the pattern—and redirecting that energy toward something that builds you up instead of tearing you down. When you understand the psychology behind your behavior, change stops feeling like a fight.

Private, Personal, and On Your Terms

No groups. No labels. No public recovery story. Everything happens privately, virtually, and on your schedule. You work directly with Amber—not an assistant, not a coach in training—just focused, expert attention on you and your situation.

 

This isn't a program you fit yourself into. It's a strategy we build around you.

"Amber's approach is unlike anything I've experienced before. Instead of dwelling on past failures or feeling condemned, I was encouraged to reframe my mindset. I went from thinking 'I can't be happy unless I drink,' to realizing 'I'll truly be happier by not drinking.' It was such a freeing shift.

There was no judgment—just genuine support and guidance. It was like re-laying the foundation of my life, but this time aligned with who I actually want to be.

Just do it. Don't overthink it. It's worth every penny—and I'd have paid more for the transformation I've experienced"

What Working Together Actually Looks Like


Phase 1: Getting Clear (weeks 1- 4) 

Most people come in knowing something needs to change but feeling fuzzy on exactly what that looks like for them. That's completely normal—and it's exactly where we start.

In this phase we slow down and get underneath the pattern. What's actually driving it? What are your specific triggers, motivations, and blind spots? What does your personality tell us about how you're wired and what will actually work for you?

You'll walk away from this phase with something most people never have: a clear picture of exactly what's happening and why—and a personalized strategy built specifically around you.


Phase 2: Building Momentum (weeks 5-8 )

This is where the plan starts becoming reality.

We take everything we learned in Phase 1 and start putting it into practice. New patterns, new habits, new ways of responding to the situations that used to trip you up. We tackle obstacles as they come up in real time—because they will come up—and we adjust the strategy as needed.

This is where you start to feel the shift. Not just in your behavior, but in how you see yourself.


Phase 3: Becoming That Person (weeks 8-12) 

By this phase something interesting happens.

You stop thinking of this as something you're working on and start just living it. The gap between who you are and who you want to be starts closing. The double life starts collapsing into just one life—the one you actually want.

This phase is about locking that in. Building the kind of momentum and self-trust that makes this permanent—not just another thing you tried for a while.


 

Every phase builds on the last. By the end you won't just have addressed the pattern—you'll have become someone who doesn't need it anymore.

Find the Right Fit

4-Week Program Perfect if you want to get clear fast. In four weeks we'll identify exactly what's driving the pattern, build your personalized strategy, and get you moving in the right direction. This is focused, intensive, and designed to give you immediate clarity and momentum.

8-Week Program Ready to go deeper? This gives us time to not only build the strategy but start putting it into practice—working through real obstacles as they come up and building new patterns that actually stick.

12-Week Program The full experience. All three phases, start to finish. This is for people who are ready to fully close the gap and become that person—permanently.


Not sure which is right for you? We'll figure it out together during your application.

"I chose this because I wanted something more personal than group therapy—and I'm so glad I did. Amber's approach is different. She's not pushy. She really listens, focuses on your strengths, and helps you move forward without judgment.

This is exactly what I needed."

Choose Your Path

4 Weeks Coaching with Amber
$2,997

 

You know something needs to change — you just need help figuring out exactly what and how. This is where we start.

  • Full access to the Addiction Severity Index assessment plus a personalized results breakdown with Amber
  • Full access to Strengths Finder and Personality Assessments so your recovery plan is built around who you actually are
  • Full lifetime access to the "Recovery to Go" online course
  • Full lifetime access to the RecoverU online course
  • Up to 4 private one-on-one coaching sessions with Amber
  • 2 months access to Amber AI 24/7 Recovery Coaching
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8 Weeks Coaching with Amber
$4,497

 

You're ready to do the real work. Eight weeks to build momentum, break patterns, and create a recovery that actually sticks.

  • Full access to the Addiction Severity Index assessment plus a personalized results breakdown with Amber
  • Full access to Strengths Finder and Personality Assessments so your recovery plan is built around who you actually are
  • Full lifetime access to the "Recovery to Go" online course
  • Full lifetime access to the RecoverU online course
  • Up to 8 private one-on-one coaching sessions with Amber
  • Weekly text updates directly with Amber between sessions
  • 3 months access to Amber AI 24/7 Recovery Coaching
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12 Weeks Coaching with Amber
$6,997

This is the full commitment — three months of deep, personalized work to build a life in recovery you're proud of and confident in.

  • Full access to the Addiction Severity Index assessment plus a personalized results breakdown with Amber
  • Full access to Strengths Finder and Personality Assessments so your recovery plan is built around who you actually are
  • Full lifetime access to the "Recovery to Go" online course
  • Full lifetime access to the RecoverU online course
  • Up to 12 private one-on-one coaching sessions with Amber
  • Weekly text updates directly with Amber between sessions
  • Up to 5 email coaching sessions with Amber
  • Full lifetime access to Rapid Relationship Repair
  • 1 year access to Amber AI 24/7 Recovery Coaching
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Payment plans now available through PayPal, Klarna, and Afterpay 

Important Notice

Spots Are Limited—Apply Now to Secure Yours

We can only accept 4 new recovery coaching clients per month to ensure each client receives the personalized attention and support they deserve.

If you’re ready to start this month (or next), don’t wait—fill out the application now to secure your spot.

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Bonus: Access to Amber AI

Your 24/7 Recovery Coach

 

In addition to your sessions with Amber, all Recovery Coaching clients now get exclusive access to Amber AI—a revolutionary tool that offers personalized, on-demand support anytime you need it.

Amber AI is like having your own recovery coach in your pocket. Built on my proven methods, it provides instant guidance, practical tools, and daily encouragement to help you stay on track and navigate challenges.

Key Benefits:

  • 24/7 access to personalized advice and strategies. Pefect for getting help between sessions! 
  • Support for tough conversations and setting boundaries.
  • Motivation to keep your recovery goals front and center.

This new feature is included with all coaching packages, giving you the tools to break free from addiction and build a meaningful life.

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